{"id":1140,"date":"2012-11-02T09:59:31","date_gmt":"2012-11-02T16:59:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dianastevan.com\/?p=1140"},"modified":"2017-01-16T12:31:02","modified_gmt":"2017-01-16T20:31:02","slug":"a-tale-of-two-countries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dianastevan.com\/uk\/2012\/life\/a-tale-of-two-countries\/","title":{"rendered":"A Tale of Two Countries"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>With election fever running high with<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1143\" style=\"width: 285px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.parl.gc.ca\/Default.aspx?Language=E\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1143\" data-attachment-id=\"1143\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.dianastevan.com\/uk\/2012\/life\/a-tale-of-two-countries\/attachment\/parliament-of-canada-3\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dianastevan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Parliament-of-Canada2.jpg?fit=275%2C183&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"275,183\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Parliament of Canada\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Parliament of Canada&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dianastevan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Parliament-of-Canada2.jpg?fit=275%2C183&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1143\" title=\"Parliament of Canada\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dianastevan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Parliament-of-Canada2.jpg?resize=275%2C183\" alt=\"\" width=\"275\" height=\"183\"><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1143\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Parliament of Canada<\/p><\/div>\n<p>our southern neighbors, I\u2019m reflecting on how we are different, how we are the same. What happens with the American vote for president affects Canada as well. We are tied together through geography, shared values of freedom and democracy, and similar lifestyles. We watch the same TV programs and the same movies.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, there are marked differences when it comes to electing our leaders. Our Canadian elections for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.parl.gc.ca\/Default.aspx?Language=E\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Parliament<\/a> are over and done with, in a matter of months, many times less than that. The Americans, on the other hand, have been dealing with vicious and untrue campaign ads for over a year. Yesterday, I caught a video\u2014shown during The Daily Show\u2019s moment of Zen\u2014of a little girl saying through tears she didn\u2019t want any more Obama or Romney. She\u2019d had enough. I\u2019d venture to say most of the American population shares her sentiments.<\/p>\n<p>As for the money that supports this endless campaigning\u2014don\u2019t the incumbents have a country to run?\u2014it\u2019s as if the heavens had opened up and rained dollars. The amount that\u2019s been given by that 1% of the population, the ones who call the shots, has been obscene. When you think of a country whose infrastructure is in bad need of repair\u2014especially now with the aftermath of Sandy\u2014and its debt in the trillions, couldn\u2019t that money have been better spent? Call me naive.<\/p>\n<p>America is a country where the rich are running scared. They are so worried about losing their yachts, jet planes, three and more luxury homes, that they will do anything to get their guy elected. That guy is Romney. Fox network, controlled by <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/News_International_phone_hacking_scandal\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Rupert Murdoch<\/a>, the man who was under investigation in Britain&#8217;s phone hacking scandal, is for Romney. It\u2019s the network that dishes the dirt about Obama every chance it gets, and boy, has it been dirty.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1144\" style=\"width: 269px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.whitehouse.gov\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1144\" data-attachment-id=\"1144\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.dianastevan.com\/uk\/2012\/life\/a-tale-of-two-countries\/attachment\/white-house\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dianastevan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/white-house.jpg?fit=259%2C194&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"259,194\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"white house\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;     The White House&lt;br \/&gt;courtesy of Wikipedia.org&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dianastevan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/white-house.jpg?fit=259%2C194&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1144\" title=\"white house\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dianastevan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/white-house.jpg?resize=259%2C194\" alt=\"\" width=\"259\" height=\"194\"><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1144\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The White House<br \/>courtesy of Wikipedia.org<\/p><\/div>\n<p>It\u2019s hard not to believe that racism isn\u2019t a big part of the story. I\u2019ve seen Barack Obama visibly age in such a short time. I don\u2019t know how he puts up with the abuse from the right. No matter how hard he\u2019s tried, he\u2019s been shot down. He started out his four year term in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.whitehouse.gov\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The White House<\/a>, trying to be a conciliator. He tried to bring the two houses together, but the Republican right wouldn\u2019t have any of it. Even though they\u2019d messed up the country with an unnecessary war in Iraq and crazy concessions to the rich, they were unhappy their man didn\u2019t get in, or was it just because Barack is black?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve watched with sadness the television coverage of Hurricane Sandy and the horrific damage it caused to New York and New Jersey.\u00a0 I was in New York in the spring; it\u2019s an amazing city with beautiful and friendly people. It\u2019s probably my favorite city in the world. Yesterday, there was more coverage, this time of Staten Island and of a woman searching through the rubble for any reminder of family. She found an old wedding photo that was muddied and wet, and for a brief moment, she was happy. The city needs an undivided America.<\/p>\n<p>From what I\u2019ve witnessed, Obama has stepped up to the plate time and time again. He did it again with hurricane Sandy. <a href=\"http:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20130104210109\/http:\/\/www.philly.com:80\/philly\/opinion\/inquirer\/20121102_Obama_and_Christie__Perfect_together.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Governor Christie<\/a>, a staunch Republican, praised him and his support for the people of New Jersey. Mayor Bloomberg of New York has now endorsed Obama. \u00a0This president has heart. This president speaks for all the people. Unfortunately, the ones at the top of the food chain don\u2019t like what he has to say. They\u2019re not happy that he wants them to pay more taxes. He just wants them to pay their fair share. Instead of looking around and thinking <em>we have more than enough <\/em>they\u2019re gripping those dollars as tightly as the man with the gold in the fairy tale who in the end gets buried by his own greed. Well, I\u2019m afraid\u00a0 if Obama doesn\u2019t get elected again, wonderful America will no longer be wonderful, It\u2019ll sink because those that have, don&#8217;t want to help those who have not. They don&#8217;t want a black man at the top telling them they have to give.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s curious that yesterday, the previous president, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.examiner.com\/article\/george-bush-is-cayman-islands-talking-about-tax-haven-investments\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">George W. Bush, was in the Cayman Islands<\/a>, as a keynote speaker at a meeting about offshore investments. If that doesn\u2019t speak volumes about what the Republican party is all about, I don\u2019t know what does.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s praying that the right man gets elected. I\u2019m praying it&#8217;s Obama.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>With election fever running high with our southern neighbors, I\u2019m reflecting on how we are different, how we are the same. What happens with the American vote for president affects&hellip; <\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[88],"tags":[330,409,78,407,408,410,412,411,405,389,404,406],"class_list":["post-1140","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","tag-barack-obama","tag-cayman-islands","tag-diana-stevan","tag-election-fever","tag-george-w-bush","tag-governor-christie","tag-hurricane-sandy","tag-new-york","tag-parliament","tag-romney","tag-rupert-murdoch","tag-the-white-house"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1LuVB-io","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1111,"url":"https:\/\/www.dianastevan.com\/uk\/2012\/life\/my-american-neighbours\/","url_meta":{"origin":1140,"position":0},"title":"My American Neighbours","author":"Diana Stevan","date":"12 \u0416\u043e\u0432\u0442\u043d\u044f, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"I wrote about my American neighbours, after a visit to #NYC and the #9\/11 memorial. 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